I crave routine as I am truly a creature of habit. I wash my body in the same order every time I shower. I park in the same parking spot on campus every morning, unless someone else takes it, and then I become angry. I do the same things in the same way, every day. Knowing what’s coming next and the result is what helps keep my brain happy. I love having a schedule. Keeping my life neat and tidy, helps keep my world free of problems and distractions. However, I have discovered the flaw in my plan over the past many years. While knowing what to expect is good at times, life is far from scripted and usually the unexpected happens on a daily basis, which causes my best intentions to go up in flames. Being prepared for everything that life throws my way is a vital life success skill. Although I’m not a huge fan of change, I do know that being able to live in the present moment will help me better adapt and find mental success in life. It’s a real challenge, but one that I try to work on regularly. I’m far from perfect, but every once in awhile I am able to be flexible in my thinking and go where the day takes me.
The problem with change, which is why I struggle with it so very much, is that it’s generally new and unchartered territory. How do I know what to do in a new situation? What’s the dress code? What do I need to bring? I get very nervous and anxious during times of change because I have no idea what is going on. I hate that, but it’s healthy for me to work out my brain in this way.
In the classroom, changes cause my students many problems as well. When a break from the routine presents itself, some of my students struggle to function appropriately. They forget how to act or what to do when things are a bit unscheduled because they are nervous and anxious, just as I am when faced with change. It’s a typical response, but one that can cause problems in the classroom. The goal is to help students learn to be mindful so that when things don’t go as planned, the students are able to live in the moment and not allow change to derail them. Teaching students to utilize a growth mindset is an easy way to provide them with the needed strategies to successfully navigate changes in the routine or schedule.
My co-teacher and I have made use of a mindfulness curriculum this year to help our students learn coping strategies when life becomes overwhelming or stressful. We’ve worked with the students and had them practice how to meditate, breathe mindfully, control their bodies in mindful ways, and how to view the world through mindful eyes. This has helped many of our students address changes thrown their way. We had the students reflect this morning on the mindfulness lessons covered so far this year, and many of them see the value and benefits associated with being mindful. Only two students don’t understand how transformational mindfulness can truly be when done correctly. I’m hopeful that those two students will begin to see its relevance as we continue to practice teaching the students new mindfulness techniques over the coming weeks.
- The Mindfulness videos help me calm down if I’m over excited for something or just super hyper. I feel more Mindful and self-aware from doing the exercises. I am more mindful and self aware to my surroundings when our class does the “mindful observations.” Doing the mindfulness exercises helps me be more aware of my surroundings.
- I think the mindfulness videos help because the voices tone is very relaxing. The voice doesn’t just relax just me, but my brain, and the world becomes clearer.
- The lessons on mindfulness helped me to focus on one thing. For example, I was not listening to the teacher, but I learned mindfulness. I used mindfulness breathing to learn mindfulness. Mindfulness breathing helped me to focus on one thing, and now I can listen to the teacher very well. I am now more able to focus on one thing, and understand people very well. Focusing on one thing goes in to mindful, and understanding people goes into self-awareness.
- I personally think that the lessons on mindfulness have really help me to calm down because they made me more mindful and self-aware.
- I think that the mindfulness lessons have been mostly helping.
- I think that lessons on mindfulness helped me be more focused on the class. I can learn more from the class. The mindful lessons really help me a lot in the class and with my homework.
Clearly, our students see the value in being mindful and present. However, sometimes, they forget the mindful techniques we’ve worked on when in the moment. Case and point, Humanities class today. During the second part of class, I conferenced with the students regarding their reading progress. While I was conferencing with the students individually, most other students were engaged in quietly reading. Then, I made a change. I opened the curtains in our classroom to let in some natural light while the boys read quietly. This change caused the entire dynamic of the room to shift. Those students who once sat, quietly reading, now became distracting to their peers and unfocused on their book. Many of the students became unsettled and unable to do what was being asked of them. Despite several reminders and attempts to refocus the students, a few struggled to recalibrate themselves from the curtains being opened. This small switch in the physical appearance of the classroom caused quite the distraction. Several of the boys never fully returned to reading in a focused manner by the end of class.
Even though the students are equipped with strategies to refocus and be mindful, they were unable to be in the present moment, doing what was asked of them. The interesting part is that a few of the most unfocused students today during Reader’s Workshop are usually the most focused and dedicated students in the class. These students are usually able to utilize the mindful strategies we’ve been working on in class during other parts of the day if stress or anxiety settles in; however, today was not one of those usual days. So then, what was different today? The change in the curtains being opened. This extra sunlight and view of the mountains seemed to distract many of the students so much that they were unable to recall how to be mindful or that they should be mindful. Because I rarely open these curtains, this change was very much a novelty. It was something new and out of the routine. As my students crave routine, much like I do, this change to the ordinary proved to be too much for them to handle. I’m hopeful that as they experience more breaks from the routine over the course of the year, they will better be able to go with the flow and live in the moment, mindfully.