This past Tuesday, some colleagues and I celebrated the beginning of our lengthy summer vacation by going to Portland, Maine. I haven’t had so much fun since I can’t remember when. Despite the dreary and cold weather, we walked around the Old Port like we owned the town. We munched on tasty food and talked about non-school stuff; although, that was difficult at times since our common tie is life at a boarding school. We tried. We laughed, we got drenched as cars drove through puddles splashing rain upon us, and we sang and danced like nobody’s business. Yes, that’s right, I said sang. You see, the reason we went to Maine was to see City and Colour live in concert. As my pals and I are enamored by Dallas Green’s sultry voice and insightful lyrics, we convinced some of our other teacher friends to come along for the epic journey. And epic it was. He played all of his best tunes including an acoustic version of Coming Home that went right into the end of This Could be Anywhere in the World by Alexisonfire, Dallas’ other band. We almost cried. As most of the people we went with enjoyed the show, it was really my two closest friends and I who were the most into the show. We danced the night away. You see, music moves us like the pied piper moved his mice. I used to be worried what people around us must think when they see us dancing, “Those people must be drunk or on drugs.” The beauty of it all is that I am completely sober during concerts. Music fills my body with joy and I can’t help but move. Sure, people point and giggle occasionally, but I no longer care. I realize that if I feel something, I should show it. So, I do, and so do my concert buddies. We move to the rhythm of each song as if we are dancers in our own private ballet. It’s so much fun. Going to a concert is an experience for us and so I’m sure to leave my fears and anxieties at the metal detectors.
Like me, my students enter our classroom each year filled with fears and anxieties about all sorts of things. “Will the other students like me? Will I fit in? Can I handle the workload?” As a teacher, I make it a goal to help assuage this fear within my students by creating a safe, caring, compassionate, and supportive environment in the classroom. Although the beginning of the year is generally the most stressful time for students due to the many unknown variables, the end of the year can also prove to be a bit challenging for our students as well. After a wonderful year in the classroom, the students begin to worry about next year as the current academic year winds to a close. They worry about the new students and teachers as well as the many changes that are sure to come in a new grade. Instead of sending our students off on summer vacation stressed about the next school year, it’s important to help the students see that their fears and worries are a normal part of growing up and maturing.
On the last day of school at my wonderful educational institution, which came and went last Thursday, we devoted time to having the students reflect on the year and share their excitement and fears for seventh grade. While my co-teacher and I wanted the students to celebrate all of the awesomeness that happened in the sixth grade classroom this year, we also wanted the students to realize that their fears are most likely the same concerns that their peers have. “I’m worried about the homework load next year. I’m worried about not fitting in. I’m worried that the teachers won’t like me. I’m worried that the new students won’t like me.” By having the boys share their worries for next year aloud with their peers, they not only had the opportunity to be validated by the teachers and their friends, but they also had a chance to become allies with the other students so that they can work together to help each other overcome the fears they possess. As we fostered a strong sense of community within the class this past year, we are hopeful that they will take care of one another next year. Knowing what worries their peers will help them better support each other as they move into the seventh grade. Helping the students to see that they have friends who support and empathize with them will help make the transition into the next academic year a bit smoother for our boys.