My son is a huge sports nut. Not only does he love playing all different types of sports, but he also enjoys watching and learning about them. When the television in our house is turned on, it is usually tuned to ESPN. He enjoys finding out how his favorite teams or players fared in games and competitions. His love of sports generally keeps him quite active and in shape. He’s also been trying to eat healthier foods too. I think it’s great. There is clearly a lot of good benefits that can come from this for him. My only concern though is the role models he has. It’s challenging to read the news headlines and not come across a story about an athlete making a bad choice or getting in trouble with the law. These are some of the role models my son has, and frankly, I don’t like it one bit. As a father, I make sure that I have conversations with my son about the mistakes athletes make and highlight the bad character they are demonstrating by making these poor decisions. My hope is that my son will value the positive attributes of the athletes he admires and realize that the bad choices they make are not to be celebrated in anyway.
As a teacher, I am always striving to be a positive role model for my students. In a world where we celebrate people doing dumb things or committing epic fails as my son often calls them, it’s important that our students and children have positive examples of how to live meaningful lives in a global society. I make sure to greet my students daily and ask them how things are going. I want them to see the importance in making genuine connections with others. I also make sure to point out when I make mistakes, own them, apologize for them if need be, and then rectify the situation as I expect my students to do the same when indiscretions are made. If I expect my students to hold themselves to high standards of behavior, then I need to make sure I am doing the same or better at all times.
Today during Humanities class, I had a chance to showcase a positive behavior that I would love to see my students embrace. The funny thing is though that I didn’t mean for it to happen. It was a bit of a happy accident. As today was our first official day of classes since returning from the recent holiday break, my co-teacher and I wanted to ease the students back into the routine. So, during Humanities class today, we had the boys participate in Reader’s Workshop, which they loved. When one student came in and read the agenda for the period on the whiteboard, he exclaimed, “Yes!” Our students love to read and talk about the books they’ve read. It’s awesome. After the students began reading, my co-teacher and I conferenced with each of the students. Reading conferences are one of my favorite parts of the week as they provide me the ample opportunity to check-in with the students about life in general as well as what they’re reading. I asked the boys about their vacation and they shared wonderful vignettes with me about the fun they had away from school. These conversations give me one more way to connect with my students and form valuable relationships that I can use to help them grow and develop as thinkers, makers, mathematicians, and students.
As we did not have a read-aloud portion to our Reader’s Workshop block today due to the fact that we are waiting to start a new book until next week once we begin our new unit on Africa, I had more than enough time to meet with my group of students. In fact, I had about 20 minutes of class time remaining after I finished my last student conference. To be a good role model for my boys, I picked up my current reading book and spent the final chunk of class time reading. As I was reading, I realized that I was learning a new strategy for helping ESL students in my classroom. In addition to differentiating the visual text ELs are exposed to, I need to also make sure that I am deliberate and thoughtful when delivering messages and information to my students orally. I find that I sometimes use difficult vocabulary terms, complex sentences, and much figurative language when talking to my students as a way to challenge them to think critically. For my ESL students, this is useless as they are only able to understand about 10% of what I’m saying. I need to be sure I use gestures, visual cues, and clearly define new vocabulary words I use when speaking to the class. While this seems like common sense, it hadn’t dawned on me to try this. As one of my professional goals for the year is to learn how to better help and support my ESL students, this seemed like a valuable knowledge nugget. But, what shall I do with this information, I thought to myself. Store it in my brain and utilize it in the classroom? Well, that makes sense. Wait a minute, I thought. What if I share what I learned from reading my book today in class with the students as a way to inspire them to perhaps share what they learned while reading today? What a brilliant idea. I never cease to amaze even myself. So, for my class closing today, I shared the chunk of information I learned from my book before asking the students to share what they learned from their book today. Three volunteers shared some very interesting and stimulating knowledge nuggets. One student who is reading a book about how video games impact our society shared a statistic he read about today that surprised him. Another student shared a philosophical quote that he had synthesized from his book. The final volunteer shared an inspirational quote that he had gleaned from his reading book. It was amazing. My closing remarks focused on how books provide us with so many opportunities, from entertaining to learning. My hope is that my students see the value in reading and all that being an active and voracious reader can teach them.
So, while my plan at the start of the period did not include ending class with a discussion on what books can teach us, because I made use of a growth mindset, was open to new ideas, and jump at the opportunity to be a role model for my students, I was able to leave my students thinking and wondering about what they learned from their book today. What can books teach us? How do books impact us? How does what we read shape us? Because I went with the flow of the class today, I was able to shed some new light on the importance of books and reading. Sometimes, the best planned lessons and activities end up being disasters and sometimes, the impromptu discussions and lessons that evolve during class end up being the most fruitful and valuable. Being a curious role model allowed me to help guide my students on their wonderful journey towards understanding and growth.